I've been a Catholic all my life, attended Catholic Grammar and High School and also College so perhaps I can help out.
Homosexuals and Lesbians are SINNERS and their SIN is not minor, it is MORTAL. This means in our teaching that if they were to Die without repenting and being forgiven (Via the Sacrament of Confession) they will GO TO HELL and ROT for ETERNITY.
Sorry folks but that's what the Theology teaches.
Now the SODOMITES were covered by Genesis, Ch. 19 and the Lord rendered His Mighty judgement - it has NOT CHANGED.
The Lesbians are no better, since LUST is their only motivation, and their SIN is also MORTAL - which is also punished by HELL.
Now, though the large and vociferous numbers of Homosexuals and Lesbians make many hide their religion, most of us do not.
OUR ETERNAL SALVATION IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN YOUR POLITICALLY CORRECT OPINION!
So, for most of us - we'd rather GO TO HEAVEN - if you don't like that, it's just too bad. We can only offer one word of advice:
REPENT!!!